Questions for Women

FOR WOMEN ONLY! NO PEEKING MEN!

Important Questions for Us Women to Ponder

As women, we are the conscious creators of our Love Life. We are endowed with strong intuitive powers that most men lack. This is our gift and makes us the master shapers of our Love Life. Intuition combined with reason is a winner. Men are strong in their reasoning powers; however, to shape your love life a strong sense of intuition is essential.

Here are some important questions to ask yourself. Your answers can guide you in shaping your love life to attract all you desire:

For Single Women who are dating:

Regarding Wanting to Change Your Dating Partner:

• If you work on changing yourself in order to inspire your dating partner to change, will you feel good and will it work?

• If you decide to change yourself and become that which you desire in your partner, will that work? Will it be achievable and comfortable?

• If you concentrate on telling your dating partner only what you don't like and why, how will that go over and can you expect to get long-lasting positive results?

• Should you decide to ignore what you don't like and reframe into positive ways of thinking and acting, would that be a simple solution and work?

Regarding Having Sex:

• If you willingly have sex on the first or second date, what does that tell the man is important for the success of your love life?

• If you tell your dating partner that you want to reserve having sex until you know him better, what message does that give your partner?

• If you flirt with your partner, what message are you giving your partner?

• If you tell your partner that you want to reserve sex until there is a firm commitment, or maybe even marriage, what message are you giving your partner?

For Women in a committed relationship:

Regarding Keeping the Passion, Magic and Romance Alive

• Do you schedule special date nights out, maybe even staying overnight in an exotic motel?

• Do you practice appreciating your partner on a regular basis?

• When you are angry, resentful or feeling hurt, do you keep your feelings to yourself?

• Do you try to shield your partner and/or protect what good feelings are left?

• When you feel angry, resentful or hurt, do you use communication exercises such as the Love Communication exercises to move you from Anger back to the Love?

• Do you decide to motivate your partner when there is a dip in the passion by telling your partner you are sad and disappointed?

• If you answered “yes”, have you noticed if this method helps?

• When there is a dip in the passion and romance, do you make an internal check list to discover if you are holding in negative feelings?

• If you discover you are holding in negative feelings, do you try to restore your passion by switching gears?

• Do you become more romantic, compassionate, and/or let your inner child out to play with your partner?

Regarding When You Feel Hurt or Abused By Your Partner

• Do you believe that if you share your feelings with your partner, your partner will no longer love you or will somehow punish you?

• If you feel hurt or abused, do you use communication techniques (e.g., Love Communication) to resolve your issues?

• Although you believe in communication techniques, do you resist using them and try to resolve your own issues?

• Feeling hurt or abused, do you think there is some issue bothering your partner so you intuitively extend more love, compassion and understanding to your partner?

• If “yes”, do you watch the results? Are you willing to make changes?

• Do you tell yourself you are in charge of whether you experience feeling hurt or abused - that only you can give yourself permission to feel hurt or abused?

• If “yes”, do you then reframe your thinking and send positive thoughts to your partner?

So, do you want to know what I think?

What I think is that the decisions you make for your life are totally up to you. You have the right to live the life you want as long as you deliberately do not hurt others.

What I do recommend is that you to watch your thoughts and become aware of what your thoughts are creating in your love life. As part of this awareness, observe what happens when you focus on positive versus the negative thoughts. Observe when you focus on the negative thoughts, if you attract the very things you want to get rid of.

To give you an example of what I mean: If you are feeling hurt or abused and continue to focus on your pain, I believe the Law of Attraction will give you more and more hurt or abuse until such time as you change your thoughts/feelings.

What you focus on is what you get! This is the Law of Attraction in action!

In closing, please know I care and am at your service. I am here for you. You are important and precious. Love is the strongest force in the the Universe, and YOU CAN USE IT!

I look forward to your questions!!!!